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Apel umanitar pentru Roxana

ANUNT UMANITAR

 
Buna ziua,
 
 Numele meu este Stanca Marian si va scriu in numele fiicei mele Nan Roxana Andreea de 24 de ani, absolventa ASE 2009, care este grav bolnava si necesita urgent tratament in strainatate ca urmare a infectiei cu virusul HTLV-1.In prezent in Romania nu exista tratament omologat, sansele de supravietuire fiind nule si  datorita  complicatiilor induse de acest virus.
 De aceea, va rog sa lansati un apel umanitar pentru colectare de fonduri in vederea unui tratament in strainatate.
 Fiica mea a fost internata succesiv, incepand cu 13.05.2012, in urmatoarele unitati medicale din Bucuresti: Spitalul de Urgenta Floreasca sectia Neurologie, Spitalul Coltea sectia Hematologie, Ïnstitutul National de Boli Infectioase „Matei Bals”, Spitalul Clinic de Boli Infectioase si Tropicale „Dr.Victor Babes”si Institutul Clinic Fundeni sectia Hematologie unde se afla si in prezent internata.
 Ultimul diagnostic pus inainte de ultima internare este urmatorul:
1. LIMFOM MALIGN NON HODGKIN CU CELULA T DE TIP ADULT;
2.INFECTIE CU HTLV-1;
3.LEZIUNI OSTEOLITICE DE CALOTA CRANIANA, FEMUR SI TIBIE BILATERAL;
4.HIPERCALCEMIE SECUNDARA IN TRATAMENT;
5.ANEMIE HIPOCROMA NORMOCITARA SECUNDARA;
6.GASTRODUODENITA ACUTA.
 Din discutiile neoficiale purtate cu medicii care au tratat-o a rezultat ca prognosticul este foarte rezervat chiar sumbru, perioada de supravietuire fiind de cateva luni. De altfel tratamentul antiretroviral aplicat la Spitalul „Dr.Victor Babes” este specific virusului HIV neavand efecte de durata in alte cazuri asemanatoare. Tot neoficial s-a scos din calcul un eventual transplant medular la Spitalul Fundeni unde i se va aplica doar  polichimioterapie ceea ce spune totul despre sansele de supravietuire ce i se acorda.
 La sugestia altor medici suntem in contact cu clinici din Japonia, Israel si Germania, costurile deplasarii, consultatiei si tratamentului fiind de ordinul zecilor de mii de euro.
 Avand in vedere gravitatea situatiei va rog, cu disperare de parinte, sa dati curs acestui apel
 Pentru verificarea situatiei prezentate va stam la dispozitie la urmatoarele numere de telefon si adrese de email:
   -0722451436-Stanca Marian;
   -0726674479-Nan Roxana Andreea (ladyroxyandreea@yahoo.com);
   -0720366214-Nan Andrei (nandreionoriu@yahoo.com).
 
 Va multumesc,
 Stanca Marian
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Mandria de a fi roman!

Am asteptat cu nerabdare Jocurile Olimpice de la Londra din aceasta vara. Eram mandra vor participa si sportivi romani, care de la inceputul acestor intreceri au fost prezenti, si au si prins un loc pe podium. Nu stiam ce reprezentanti avem, in afara de gimnastele romance si de sportivele de la scrima. Aceasta competitie, asa cum este normal, a fost indelung mediatizata. Pe retelele de socializare, la stiri, in spoturi publicitare, se dezbatea un singur subiect: trebuie sa sustinem sportivii romani. Am trait cu sufletul alaturi de acesti sportivi minunati care ma fac mandra ca sunt romanca. Intr-o tara in care, in ultimele luni s-a pus mare pret pe politica, pe certurile dintre politicieni, pe criza economica, uite ca, am gasit si un alt subiect de abordat, mai putin important pentru cei care ne conduc si in care ne-am pus sperantele pentru un viitor mai bun. Sportivii nostri ne-au reprezentat cu brio, aducandu-ne medalii la care nici nu visam.

Si acum?! Pentru multi reprezentanti ai mass-media din Romania si pentru unii politicieni, nu conteaza decat ca au fost doar 2 medalii de aur. Nu conteaza restul, nu conteaza ca acesti oameni au dat tot ce au avut ei mai bun, unii dintre ei accidentati, si ca au reusit ce multi doar viseaza. S-au pregatit luni intregi pentru aceasta Olimpiada, au facut sacrificii enorme, s-au antrenat in conditii mizere si noi nu putem sa discutam decat ca au fost DOAR doua medalii de aur. Pentru unii dintre noi nu conteaza decat aurul, nu apreciem munca si daruirea acestor sportivi, nu stim sa ne bucuram si pentru argint sau bronz. Trebuie sa invatam sa apreciem si acest lucru, nu doar culoarea medaliilor castigate.

Va multumesc!

Va multumesc pentru curajul, daruirea si munca pe care o depuneti pentru a ne face mandrii ca suntem romani!

Va multumesc pentru fiecare medalie pe care ati adus-o acasa, pentru fiecare lacrima pe care ati varsat-o, pentru fiecare strangere de dinti pe care ati avut-o din cauza durerilor!

Va multumesc pentru ca , inca o data, mi-ati dat posibilitatea de a fi mandra ca  sunt romanca!

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My best friend!

Someone once said that „best friends are the ones who, even if they didn’t saw each other for years, when they reconnect, they continue where they left”.

This is how the relationship between me and my best friend is. We know each other for 8 years now, and  with each year passing by, we get closer, and I trust her more. With her I can be myself, she knows all my feelings, my fears, my secrets. I can call her in the middle of the night and know that she is there for me, ready to help me whenever I need a shoulder to cry, a good advice or a „partner in crime”. I talk to her every day, and even if she lives in another country ( she is working there from 2011) we are closer than ever. The miles between us doesn’t stop us to continue with our friendship.

I remember when we first met:)) She was my cousin’s girlfriend and I didn’t liked her at first, and she didn’t liked me either:) But, after a few weeks we knew we will be best friend, even if she is not my cousin’s girlfriend anymore. In 8 years, we didn’t fought at all, and always been there whenever one of us needed a shoulder or someone to talk with.

She is always honest with me, and when I’m about to do a stupid thing, she is there to stop me.

This is how I think a best friend is: never afraid to tell you when you do or say something stupid, always honest, even if the truth hurts you. I do the same thing for her. I trust her with my life and I know she will never disappoint me. And I hope she thinks the same about me:)

I love her and I don’t know what my life would be without her.

I wish you all to find a best friend like her, because she is, for me, the definition of a best friend.

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Quotes!

Hi guys,

I want to share with you some quotes that inspire me and in which I found myself:

„Reality is wrong. Dreams are for real.” – Tupac Shakur

„Every now and then, I wish it were then instead of now.” – Thomas Michael

„I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge. That myth is more potent than history. I believe that dreams are more powerful than facts, that hope always triumphs over experience, that laughter is the only cure for grief, and that love is stronger than death.” – Robert Fulgahm

„Change is never easy. You fight to hold on, you fight to let go.”

„The only time a goodbye is painful is when you know you’ll never say hello again.”

„If you cry because the sun has left your life, your tears will prevent you from seeing the stars.”

„Sometimes I wish I could go back to the days when I was six and my biggest problem was what kind of dress to put on my Barbie’s or whether or not I had enough Lego’s to build a fort.”

„Everything is always ok in the end. If it’s not ok, then it isn’t the end.”

„If I won’t be myself, who will?” – Alfred Hitchcock

„I lie in bed at night and wonder where that special person is, what’s his name, what’s he doing or thinking, what color are his eyes, what do his hands look like, but most of all I wonder when I’ll find him.”

„Education is very important. School, however, is another matter.”

„You are only what you are when no one is looking” – Robert C. Edwards

„Work like you don’t need the money. Love like you’ve never been hurt. And dance like no one is watching.”

„Live the live you love. Love the life you live.”

„I think that if two people are meant to be together when they see each other they get this incredible feeling like no other, a special feeling that is incredible and they know that they want and are supposed to spend the rest of their life with that person … and you just know, and that is love at first sight.”

„People will always talk about you, especially when they envy you and the life you live. Let them … you affected their lives, they didn’t affect yours.”

„You know it’s a best friend, when you can sit on the porch swing for hours, not say a word, and feel like you’ve just had the best conversation of your life.”

„Don’t get mad, get even.” – Joseph P. Kennedy

„A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable but more useful than a life spent in doing nothing.” – George Bernard Shaw

„Never look down on anybody unless you’re helping him up.” – Jesse Jackson

„Try to please everbody. That’s the formula for failure.” – Howard W. Newton

„Everything has beauty. Not everyone sees it.” – Gandhi

„I am not in this world to live up to your expectations and you are not
in this world to live up to mine.  I am I and you are you, if we find each
other that’s beautiful, if not it can’t be helped.”

„For every door of happiness that closes, another one opens, but
sometimes we are too busy looking at the closed door to notice.”

„I’m an angel. Honest. The horns are just there to hold the halo up straight.” :))

„Normal people scare me.”

„Don’t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” – Howard Thurman

„Wheresoever you go, go with all your heart.” – Confucius

„Don’t be afraid to be amazing.” – Andy Offutt Irwin

„Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It’s perfect when it arrives and puts itself in our hands. It hopes we’ve learned something from yesterday.” – John Wayne

„Remember always,that you have not only the right to be an individual, you have the obligation to be one.”

„All my like I had been looking for something, and everywehre I turned someone tried to tell me what it was.  I accepted their answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even self-contradictory.  I was naive.  I was looking for myself and asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I, could answer.  It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with:  that I am nobody but myself.” – Ralph Ellison

„If God had wanted me otherwise, He would have created me otherwise.” – Johann von Goethe

„Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Others stay for a while and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same.”

„When you throw dirt, you lose ground.”

„Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.” – Mark Twain

„What is meant to be will always find a way.”

„If we are not ashamed to think it, we should not be ashamed to say it.” – Marcus T. Cicero

„Do not follow where the path may lead.  Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

„You have enemies?  Good.  That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.” – Winston Churchill